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Wicked Book Girls Night In: Dirty Words 2

WB_GNI_Logo_02Hello! Grab your cocktail and settle in for a drink and some girl talk! I read four AMAZING books this week. Eyes Wide Open by Raine Miller, Playing Patience by Tabatha Vargo {review} and Undeniable (again) and Unbeautifully  by Madeline Sheehan. {review}

So my book boyfriend for the week was a tough one, but I’ll say….still Ethan Blackstone. He’s gorgeous, clean, doesn’t do drugs or kill people, and I LOVE his dirty mouth and mind. And I mean….

tumblr_mahk65RnCK1qfy03lo1_1280Nuff said.

So tonight’s subject for Wicked Book Girls Night In is dirty words. We have talked about this before and spent the night cracking up, lets talk more!

Are there words you hate to read? Words that turn you on? What about dirty talk? Do you like the dirty talking guys (in person or in real life)?

I hate the word moist. Spunk, nub, petals, pearl are all eew words for me. I really don’t like cum. And I just read it described as a “thick viscous liquid” and it made me gag a bit.

But it must be really hard for an author to write a good sex scenes using a variety of words that don’t bother anyone. So what words don’t bother you? What words COMPLETELY turn you off? Are there certain authors that write so well you can overlook the words, or any that you love until they use the words?

Talk dirty to me,  🙂

 

 

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  3. Milagros Jovic says

    I think it all depends on my mood…but I’m with you on petals, pearl & cum. IDK sometimes simple is best like in KA’s Reid when he simply states “spread”

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  4. Rl griffin says

    I must be drunk, Ana had to tell me where to go! I hate
    Secretion and I read a book this week that I liked, but called it
    A cunt. I actually flinched!

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    • Milagros Jovic says

      Cunt doesn’t bother me too much unless its overused. It also depends if the author is English because it just doesn’t have the same connotation over there. What does bother me is the “pearl in the canoe” idk why but I just don’t like canoe

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  6. Scheva says

    So the book I just finished had a girl with her clit pierced and they had hot sex a lot but the wording of ‘ his pubis rubbing my clit….’ just didn’t do it for me. It’s like a too technical word with a dirty word. And it was written like that often throughout the book…. However, what word would you use for a guys pubic bone area??

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  7. Jess says

    Ok so there is a phrase I keep seeing and it makes me roll my eyes so hard…” Her mouth watered when she saw his cock” or whatever variable …. dude please. I have been with some fine ass men. My mouth is not watering for it in my mouth. sorry. Maybe its just me.

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    • Jess says

      How many euphemisms for a cock can we come up with that don’t make you either gag or snicker?

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      • Sue says

        I can’ t remember the book, but in one of the sex scenes she called it “his slithering member”. Snapped me right out of the scene. I have a friend who always refers to a penis as a one eyed snake, but really didn’t need the slithering description.

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    • Scheva says

      Maybe you could get away with it ONCE in a book to make your point but good Lord there are better ways to say hard dick with soft skin! Lol

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    • Milagros Jović says

      I know that is so over used
      Terms like “hard as a rock” or “hard enough to pound nails” are overused too

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      • Milagros Jović says

        What about “his length” I’m so tired of that. Once is okay but over & over again? Just say Dick or cock

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  9. Ana's Attic says

    Lets see, what words do we call a penis? Dick sounds strange in a sexual term, cock works, manhood? Member? (throbbing member is pretty common, just don’t say turgid),

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  11. YY says

    If the story is well written, I can tolerate almost any wording but when the same descriptor is used over and over in a book it does get tiresome. I don’t care for “cream” but “secretion” and “thick viscous liquid” would really bother me.

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  12. Lindsey says

    I love all the comments never really thought about, not easily turned off or offended.
    I guess I wouldn’t be reading all these great books if I were!
    Thank you for sharing sorry not to offer much!

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  13. Kerry G says

    I hate anything that skirts around the term…mound, rod, manhood, flower. Gimme the good stuff…dick, cock, pussy, cunt. Im a big girl, I can handle it LOL

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  14. Jess says

    How about this whole “tasting myself on him” …. you know what if I am completely honest…I can pass on that too…and used soooo often, and sure its a given if he is going down good and you are having a great orgasm that your man is coming back up with a milk mustache of sorts….but I’m not trying to lick it off either… It may be inevitable but its not my goal or even something that is going to get me going…because if you did your job right down there, the taste of myself is a byproduct rather than a highlight…again just me?

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      • Jess says

        For real…”here let me help you with that honey…we’ll just wipe your face right quick with the crotch of your “incredibly sexy” boxer briefs and keep on going like nothing happened shall we? carry on then. ”

        LOL. sorry I think I am in a particularly snarky mood tonight… my husband has been a massive dick of late.

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  15. Jess says

    I apologize if I am turning this into pet peeve night rather than dirty words night…
    Nipples. Balls. Pussy. Penis.
    There you go. All better now.
    😛

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    • Jess says

      Thank you. I do appreciate that. Lately I’d rather read about sex and romance in a book than face him. As most men he’d happily have sex no matter what but fuck that, I refuse to give it up if I am not being treated with courtesy and respect. Sooo until further notice…its just me and the books and BOB.

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      • Scheva says

        Ha! Sounds like you’re married to my husband! BOB makes me way happier, we should have married him!

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        • Ana's Attic says

          My husband is actually AMAZING in bed, we have a phenomenal sex life, but when he’s a dick he isn’t getting any.

          Though I must say, when we do it, his dickishness magically disappears.

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          • Jess says

            yeah my husband is pretty fucking awesome in bed too…which makes it so much more sad…*hangs head in grief* …but I gotta be strong because I am not going roll over and spread’em no matter how good it will feel at the moment…I will hate myself for it later. :/

        • Jess says

          Isnt that a sad story…he would be getting laid all over the place if he wanted to. He’d rather be an ass the get some ass…smh.

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  22. Jess says

    Her mouth watered when she saw his slithering member spring from the confines of his tight black leather pants…she already could imagine the glorious moment when he would spurt his love milk all over her face. The mere thought gave her cuny quakes…she must have him now or die!!!!!!!!

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  25. Kay says

    Beaver…..muff…..bush….NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Juss throwin’ these out there. I have been known to use the word TWAT…….but only when I’m pissed off at someone and sayin’ it in the sense of….YOU are acting like a TWAT.

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      • Kay says

        I LOVE reading along and the female character referring to her “dirty parts”…..it makes me giggle. I LOVE IT…..use it at the right time and WOW…..just WOW.
        Ana…….you need a night so we can discuss BALLS……yes…..BALLS. Don’t get me wrong. Luv me some man balls…just NOT hanging off of the back end of a mans pick up truck! I went off about that today after spending yet another day driving….with big balls swaying back and forth off of the bumpers of BIG trucks driven by men who feel they must over compensate for what must clearly be…..their small man parts. I could say DICKS here…..but I will go with man parts for the purpose of my rant. 😉

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          • Kay says

            Hell yes……And SEE……you immediately KNEW it was Texas at just the mention of hanging balls off of the back of a truck… lol There is nothing on this planet better than a fine cowboy.OR a biker..OR a hot man in a fine truck. A man in a military uniform…good gracious! Lawd knows we have’em all here….but the balls? I swear I think its because they really do want people to think that they really are hung like bulls. They are not.

          • Kay says

            This is true…..many of the fine men of Texas DO. BUT…..big balls that hang off of the backs of their trucks don’t count.

  26. Kay says

    Last week I was sitting at my fav. spot, reading. My fav. bartender was behind the bar…..I was having tea and a bowl of soup. My hand grazed something on the bar and I said…..Hey babe, clean this spooge off the bar, my hand landed in it. OMG the LOOK and then the sudden BURST of laughter that resulted. YEP….I said it out loud.

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      • Natasha W. says

        Spooge is a totally acceptable word for many situations. A multipurpose word if you will.

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        • Kay says

          That is exactly what I said. I KNEW I was right. He tried to say….babe, you DO know what that word means right. I said….what am I 10? Hell yes I KNOW what it means……but I choose to use it at my discretion! More laughter.

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    • T Hammond says

      I wish I’d been siting on the next barstool when you said that– I would have totally loved to have seen the bartender’s face. LOL – what a hoot!

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  27. Kay says

    saying goodnight ladies…….time for shower and a couple hrs reading… I wish I had made it here sooner. Sweet dreams.

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  28. Joanne Christenson says

    I also hate the words…Spunk, nub, petals, pearl, cum And I dont like cunt ….. “thick viscous liquid” made me cringe…..so phrases I hate. ..I found in the book real.

    “He suddenly plunges into my sheath”

    “He’s pulsing fiercely in my channel”

    “Where my wet kitten presses against his large erection”

    Best for last. …

    “The tender nubbin of my clit”

    I hate these phrases. I know you have to describe things differently if you say them over and over but give me a break

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  29. T Hammond says

    I hate books that use twat, spunk, or silly euphemisms for a penis like “rod of love” (Really?)… Many words just seem kinda dumb, but, as I’m right in the middle of writing a sex scene, I can certainly empathize with trying to find the right arrangement of words to describe the action. I personally don’t like the word cunt, and have never used it myself.

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