Hi! Welcome to another Saturday night Girls Night In! It’s been a crazy week, but I finally got the new website up for Wicked Book Events. I love it! I can’t believe the line-up of authors coming in June! I was able to do a little reading this week finally, and I read Olivia Cunning’s newest Sole Regret book, Touch Me. And let me just say….wow, that lady can write the crap out of a sex scene! (See my review)
I also re-read On Dublin Street by Samantha Young (actually I have 10% left). Let me tell you Braden Carmichael….. Holy fuck. If you haven’t read that book, click HERE right the fuck now. I PROMISE, you will love me for it. Braden is my Book Boyfriend for the week. Down London Road, the next book, comes out Tuesday, but I have an ARC waiting, so you guys better entertain me tonight!
Now, onto the big O.
In the books we read, virgins come from nipple sucking. PULEEZE. Really, can that happen? Maybe to one in a million women, but I think not. 90% of the books we read have the women have multiple orgasms, many on command, without ANY external stimulation. The couples often come together as well.
I recently spoke to a friend who thought all women were like that in real life and felt bad about herself. According to this article, 75% of women have never had an “internal” orgasm.
At Wicked Book Weekend we had a talk about it. There was one young lady who will forever have “squirting” in her name, who ALWAYS had internal ones. She is the rarity.
What about multiples? That second one takes work!!!
What about those times where you just can’t get there, even with the high powered tool? (Hello, magic wand!) Has that EVER happened in a book?
I must say, in this case, I’m really lucky. My husband does whatever it takes, and won’t give up, even if I do. He will not let me NOT have a happy ending.
What about the men? When I was watching Last Call with Brittany the other night, Brittany was doubtful about men who can have more than one O, or go for hours. My guy is in his early 50s (shut up, he’s a lot older than me!) and can go twice in a row. That second time is sometimes a lot of work, but he does it! He can go until I beg him to stop because I can’t move any more, and then do it again that night. (Case in point….the kids were out today, we had a double session, he then texted me at 6:30 and warned me he “wasn’t done with me”.) The night we first did it (25 years ago), it was a 6 time night!
I always wear out first. But I’m an external girl. Something happens internally, but I still think I’m a little scared to let it go for a big one. But damn, my guy can make me scream. 🙂 But he isn’t into quickies, which kind of sucks. Once in a while, I like it fast. I don’t need to come every time, but he can’t seem to do it quick, unless I do first, so I guess I won’t complain….
What about you guys? Are the books realistic? Are you lucky enough to have a g-spot O? Can your guy go more than once? Is there something that works every time? Inquiring, dirty minds want to know!
PS. I’m filthy drunk and my 15 year old and his friend are sitting 10 feet away from me jamming out some Grateful Dead (They are both AMAZING guitarists) so forgive me mistakes, I’m having some focusing issues…